<date>
<item>
<id> 1 </id>
<name> ABC </name>
</item>
<item>
<id> 2 </id>
<name> cde </name>
</item>
<item>
<id> 3 </id>
<name> efg </name>
</item>
</date>

dim id
id= "2 "
Set objXML = Server.CreateObject( "Microsoft.XMLDOM ")
objXML.Load(server.MapPath(filePath))
Set objNodes = objXML.selectSingleNode( "date/item[id = ' " & id & " '] ")

dim id
id= "2 "
Set objXML = Server.CreateObject( "Microsoft.XMLDOM ")
objXML.Load(server.MapPath(filePath))
Response.Write(objXML.selectSingleNode( "date/item[id = ' " & id & " ']/name ").text)

Set objNodes = objXML.selectNodes( "date/item[id = ' " & id & " '] ")